baggage's Diaryland
Diary
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As it stands currently
Wowee. Been a while. Not feeling much need to come here any more-except, of course, tonight.
I wonder why I even bother, but I suppose it still is nice to have some sort of semi-private space on the web.
Good things:
band doing well.
Going to graduate school.
Still teaching. And loving it.
Someday, I hope to teach full time.
Gots to pick up more actionscript!
Married life is wonderful, I must say. Why did I ever wait so damn long? I'm so glad she did.
Saw some great shows recently: Lyle Lovett, Leo Kotke, Eisley, Steely Dan, The Myriad...good stuff.
Buying a new amp soon. Must have toys! bad stuff:
Lost two kitties to coyotes. :(
Still pissed off at Jeff. Can't get over it.
Work is bad-but, then again, the economy sucks so I suppose it's like that for a lot of us.
Hmmm,..that's it. Not too bad, really.
Oh. One more good thing: fried chicken in the fridge.
That's it fer now. I do plan on updating more soon.
9:13 p.m. - 2008-08-11
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American Tune
So where the hell are all my friends?
Not "MySpace/Facebook/insert social networking website here friends," but friends I've known all my life? Ones with recognizable voices. Ones who live nearby. Ones who live across the country. A neighboring town?
Where did you go?
8:30 p.m. - 2008-06-16
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Open letter to my favorite fellow JEW fan
wow-when did you leave that note? I haven't been here in ages. All is well-just been super busy with all sorts of work/music/relationship stuff. But it's all pretty good. Right now, I'm relaxing in some silk boxer shorts (too much information? yeah-well too bad). Came home from work and immediately took a quick run around the block (very tiring but it feels great), followed by a cold shower, a nice solitary meal and now, some new music courtesy of a band I just saw last Thursday at the El Rey: Vedera. Imagine a harder rockin, yet poppier Brandi Carlile (is that how she spells her last name?). Their full album is cool, but I prefer their latest ep Stages. Go get it now! It's only, like, 2 bucks on ITunes or something. They opened up for Eisley which is another AMAZING band. Damn-they were just awesome live. Very melodic, progressive and, well, I mean-not to be so base or anything, but the three girls in the band are adorably pretty. Wowee. And, their vocal harmonies are out of this world. Seriously. It's like they're angels or something. And their songs are very unique. No one else sounds like them-save for Sixpence None The Richer, but that is so unfair fair. The more you listen to Sixpence and Eisley, the differences in their songwriting become easily apparent. I love Sixpence too by the way-too bad they broke up. What the hell was Leah (or it it Lea) thinking? Divine Discontent was just an amazing album and now she puts out this solo album that's pretty good but oh-so-typical-pop. Ugh. I wonder what Matt Slocum is up to these days? Anyways, also saw Dream Theater and a band named Opeth a while back. I'm not a huge fan of cookie monster metal-you know, the metal bands with the singers who sound like their growling the whole time? Not too into that at all. But, this band, Opeth (NOT Oteph which is another band) has a great album called "Damnation." The song that blew me away live was "In My Time Of Need" which is just beautiful...I'm not sure if you would like the whole album but that one song is gorgeous. Go gamble 99 cents and get it from ITunes. I'm curious to get your take on it. Anyways, Opeth has a lot of death metal in them-but that one album is totally different and very cool. Plus, the singer has an amazing voice. I love being blown by a band that plays a style of music I don't typically like. Anyways, how is it over there on your side of the world? How is the job?
Oh-and I turned 40 a while ago and celebrated by consuming mass quantities with a fellow diarylander who turned out to be just as awesome in person as she is in her journal. These connections we make-so very light and tenuous yet so very cool too. There's this other person in diaryland who doesn't write here anymore and i so miss her. But, these things, they happen. So, anyway, I'd update you about the band but you know where I am on myspace so I won't bother dagnabit. I'm posting this without editng! Watch out!
8:42 p.m. - 2008-05-19
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Hold your fire, keep it burning bright
OK.
Whew.
Deep breath.
’Tis time to recollect thoughts and hash out the triumphs and failures of the past few weeks.
In an unexplained fit of madness driven by both economic and emotional catalysts, I took on far too much.
Perhaps I'm bearing the torch of some imagined guilt.
Or perhaps I had foolishly hoped that throwing myself to the metaphorical lions of my so-called career would somehow persuade a few skeletons to vacate the metaphorical closet.
But, no such luck.
Foolish, foolish immature little man that I am.
But, it's over. And I'm better for it.
I think.
So, what's new? Let's see:
I turn 40 in a few months. Two months to be closer to exact.
So, is that a big deal? Well-yes. I suppose it is. But, I'm not afraid of 40 nearly as much as I'm afraid of the future.
Which seems contradictory I know.
The future has worried me for quite some time now. And, believe me, the future has little to do with turning 40.
I'm due for some growth. A plan would be nice. I want to enter my 40s with a plan for the next - shall I go ahead and say it - half of my life.
You see, I've never really entertained a plan. Life just sorta fell into place. Wife-Unit, the career, the house, the savings, the home, the music; it's all there. And I'm debt free (save for the mortgage, but that doesn't really count. So there).
Not bad when you think about it. I've plenty to be giddy about-specifically the debt free part (I wasn't always debt free. It took quite a few years to rid myself of the financial excess of my college years. That's one part of my youth I never plan to revisit).
But, now, two months away from, from...you know...40 - I do feel the need for some sort of plan.
So, I'm looking for one. If any of the two or three of you who read my dribble have one you'd like to share, please do so. I need the perspective of someone who doesn't know me. At least who doesn't know me - yet - (I'm still waiting for my fish tacos. And don't look at my journal like that. You know who you are).
In other news, I'm still enduring the sting of words written by an old-ex-best-friend-Ray (name the pop culture reference in that last sentence for an air kiss on any part of your virtual body). I trusted this person. I've defended this person. And I want to forgive and forget and all that other crapola, but you see-I just can't bring myself to that kind of zen. I'm still quite pissed about what was done.
And I fear that I'll never get over it.
And I'm also concerned for Wife-Unit. She's adrift. And I can't seem to reel her into any kind of direction.
And, well, you know, I figure if anyone could help it would be me.
But, that's just not true.
And that's what's concerning.
The artistic spark is still very much there. But, it's been neglected and is feeling a bit unsure. Must stroke that muscle before it atrophies any further.
So, there, in so many unspecific terms is What's On My My Mind.
I need to break it down.
And the first step to breaking it down is to write it down.
So, I've at least started.
Happy Valentines Day.
And may Cupid's bow not be dipped in anything too infectious.
9:18 p.m. - 2008-02-14
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Over the hills and far away
Listening to Paz, and feeling very quiet. What I'm looking for is home. Some sort of family. Friends that don't require any sort of guard. A culture that fits loosely yet still manages to drape across the shoulders well. I've no idea where to look.
8:56 p.m. - 2008-01-21
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the glory of strangers
Someone tried to kill me in my dreams last night. And I found protection in a group of strangers who clearly wanted to save me, even though their interest in my well-being never was clear.
Also unclear was why I was the target of someone's bullets.
Maybe I'll get to finish the story tonight.
8:54 p.m. - 2008-01-21
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And I say this with complete sincerity
Happy happy, joy joy everyone!
5:41 p.m. - 2007-12-24
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Early Christmas
I found two friends I thought I had lost for good this past week.
And, thankfully, they were looking for me as much as I was looking for them.
8:50 p.m. - 2007-12-17
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Enough
reality check: Paris Hilton is so not that hot. I wish we'd get over our fascination with her skinny-ass.
7:15 a.m. - 2007-12-14
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Heave!
Excuse me, I can't breathe because of all this shit on my chest. To those who called for the execution of a teacher because her class named a teddy bear Mohammed: FUCK YOU. Thankfully, the president of Sudan isn't nearly as fucking stupid as some of the country's residents. I mean-you gotta be fucking kidding right? Is this what your religion advocates? Virtual Gifts: Are you serious? If you have that much extra money to throw down the gutter, then at least let a homeless person pick it up. Dear Lord. How extravagant can we get? Megan Meier: Jesus-can it get any more tragic than this? The Golden Compass: Oh no! All our kids will become atheists! Quick! Let's raise a big-ass stink about it so the movie can get even more publicity! It's just a movie, people. If you don't like it, then don't let your kids see it. Fucking dumbasses. Hell, just listening to Bush speak is enough to make me doubt the existence of God. The Democratic candidates: Jesus-we need a legitimate third party NOT affiliated in any form with Ralph Nader. The Republican candidates: Jesus-we need a third party that doesn't come pre-packaged with Mr. Nader. You've done some great work, sir-but you're part of the reason why Bush is in power now and for that, you deserve a teaching job in Sudan, asshole. OK-I feel a little better. Now, if I can finally get over this flu.
8:04 a.m. - 2007-12-04
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It's just the flu, damnit!
Despite a lingering illness that refuses to go away, I'm determined to make December the damn giddy month that it should be.
But, before I can get on with my giddy self, I figured that a visit to the doctor was in order. I've been sick, off and on, since October for God's sakes -- and with my typical remedy of tylenol and nyquil not working the expected miracle, I drug myself down to a nurse practicioner yesterday hoping for some sort of antibiotic and got, instead, tested for HIV.
What the fuck? HIV?
She ordered blood tests for a variety of things telling me it was standard procedure for new patients, but the paperwork clearly checked that I was being tested for HIV as well.
What was it about her limited time with me (10 minutes or so) that made her think I should be tested for HIV? I looked like shit no doubt - hell I was lucky to have the strength get in the shower that day much less put on any sort of face - but I doubt my appearance alone would have raised that particular flag.
Not that I'm worried. I can tell you, with nary a bat of my slanted eye, that I've been true blue to Girl Unit since we've met-with the exception of many trysts with my right hand of course. Thankfully, I'm feel that my right hand is to be trusted as well. I know where it's been after all.
Oh c'mon. You do it too. Probably just last night. Admit it.
7:32 a.m. - 2007-12-04
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Just wonderin'
So. Ummm...it's almost midnight, the day after thanksgiving. What are you doing?
11:46 p.m. - 2007-11-23
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Chasing some sort of light
Downtown Santa Barbara reeks of ocean salt and twenty-something hormones.
I'm here to work, believe it or not.
Which makes it even harder to believe that the last seven hours have been spent eating, bar hopping and (I kid you not) almost getting into a fight with some bearded asshole who walked up to me and said, "I loved you in Crouching Tiger."
We were in mid-hand shake when he blurted out that comment. At first, I thought to just let it go and be a wuss about it but, thanks to the alcohol coursing through my system, I opted to tell him what a famously fucked up comment that was to make.
I could have killed the bastard.
More words were said, but my companion, a cool dude in more ways than one, saw the upcoming calamity and led me out of the bar.
I was more than happy to follow.
Santa Barbara comes with its own set of happy cliches.
Beautiful girls, all seemingly drunk or at least buzzed, stroll the streets with girlfriends/boyfriends-laughing at some unheard inside joke.
DJs spin mash-ups of hip-hop, R&B and pop from every corner.
And, there, in the midst of it all, is me-suitably warm from too many glasses of wine, wondering how I fit in-if I fit in at all.
Narcissism is, after all, one of my best self-indulgent traits.
I'm here for one night only-trolling for some sort of illustration that would make my boss happy.
The first night, by the way, away from my Wife.
It's amazing how much I miss her-specifically considering how, just a few entries ago-I doubted our relationship to the point that I considered leaving in a last ditch effort at supposed freedom.
Anyways-that's what's on my mind-at 12:23 am, in downtown Santa Barbara-enjoying myself and wishing I was home all at the same time.
The lyric for the moment: "I'm a suspect, I'm a traitor,
I'm only here in body visiting" Toodles.
12:37 a.m. - 2007-11-16
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hey! look at how sexy I am! Hey! where ya goin?
Ya know, I was really kind of into the new Tori single. I though that maybe, just maybe, she's gotten back to actually writing some listenable melodies again (the kind that dripped thick like molasses throughout "Little Earthquakes" and "Under The Pink" ).
But then she started that "I am a M I L F, don't you forget" shit and damn. What a letdown.
5:49 p.m. - 2007-11-03
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Not quite lucid enough for any sort of Legibility
The deed came about in the most cat-like way.
Skimpering up. Silent. As if on skates.
She had been thinking about things. BIG things.
Mom's mortality.
Sister’s hormone-ality.
Nephew's financiality.
Boyfriend's fidelity.
He had been thinking about things as well. BIG things.
Employability.
Mortality.
Fidelity.
Pretty much in that order. And, then, matters of health came up.
Lines were drawn.
Wills were drawn.
Just to make sure, you know, that the Great All was covered. And, well, now it is.
And, to be perfectly frank oh Mr. Me from sometime in the future,
It feels OK.
Better actually. And that's a wonderful thing.
6:12 p.m. - 2007-10-06
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